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Wow Gintz ! .... that's quite the scenario you have going on there. Poor Ruby. It seems to me that Pepper and Boo have really bonded, and that could be why when Pepper goes after Ruby, Boo will too (kind of like a pride of lions) and unusual that Cosmo can take out Pepper and Boo, but Ruby will not back down from him. Could it be that she has been around Pepper longer and 'expects' him to be friendly, and is confused as to why he behaves aggressively towards her ? We had issues where Smudge was being bullied by his bigger sibling Kramer and spray bottles, yelling and chasing didn't seem to deter him from his behaviour. Eventually, I 'Alpha maled' Kramer by nipping his ear whenever he tried to attack Smudge, who could not defend himself (Smudge was declawed before we got him). Eventually they settled down to where they could lie beside each other but at times, Kramer would chase him up the stairs and we'd hear a 'Meeoooow-ch !!!' and that's where I'd end up running to the sound of the screech, most often to be met halfway downstairs by a big black furry blur as he sped past on his way to the front door. I wonder if there's a 'Cat Whisperer' much like the Dog Whisperer we hear about...good luck with that It's a hard situation for you to have to put up with, not to mention stressfull for poor Ruby. I hope it constinues to improve for everyone's sake. Good Luck and we'll await further updates.

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Funny thing is, Pepper and Ruby will both sleep with me on the bed - and share from the same dish. I think the intensity of the attacks has to do with the fact that she pees herself when really frightened. (But then, even our vet said that HE'D pee himself, too, if Pepper attacked him like that!) Personally, I think that Cosmo is just too stupid to be afraid - thus our nickname for him. Pepper's meltdowns are not normal aggression - they are fear aggression and are truly frightening. The girls lock themselves in their rooms when it happens (big help - NOT!) - although Jenn did get the spray bottle the last time. The water spray is set to stream and it's purpose is to divert his attention. In that way, it is quite effective. The vast majority of them are caused by the scent of tomcat urine.......and with so many un-neutered cats running around our neighbourhood.....thus the precautions when I am outside working in my yard.